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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-213</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 19:10:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome story, I&#039;m originally from Sharon and I&#039;ve only heard good things about the place. It just shows that it never hurts to ask. It&#039;s also nice that the takeaway here is that the service was good when 90% of the story was about how bad it was. Just one good employee can make a HUGE difference.
.-= Daniel´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SweatingTheBigStuff/~3/c5hIrywwjMg/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How To Raise Your Credit Limit Without a Hard Inquiry&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome story, I&#8217;m originally from Sharon and I&#8217;ve only heard good things about the place. It just shows that it never hurts to ask. It&#8217;s also nice that the takeaway here is that the service was good when 90% of the story was about how bad it was. Just one good employee can make a HUGE difference.<br />
.-= Daniel´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SweatingTheBigStuff/~3/c5hIrywwjMg/" rel="nofollow">How To Raise Your Credit Limit Without a Hard Inquiry</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Tracy</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-208</link>
		<dc:creator>Tracy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That manager was great. And it&#039;s always possible that the waiter was just having a bad night. Sometimes, we forget that the people bringing the food are dealing with life every day, just like we are and in addition to being busy, his mind could have been struggling with something as simple as a fight with his girlfriend or a problem in his family of which you were unaware. That&#039;s why I always try to give folks a second chance to make a good impression.
.-= Tracy´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://downturnliving.com/blog/2010/02/the-price-of-fame-a-story-about-about-pre-planning/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Price Of Fame: A story about about pre-planning…&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That manager was great. And it&#8217;s always possible that the waiter was just having a bad night. Sometimes, we forget that the people bringing the food are dealing with life every day, just like we are and in addition to being busy, his mind could have been struggling with something as simple as a fight with his girlfriend or a problem in his family of which you were unaware. That&#8217;s why I always try to give folks a second chance to make a good impression.<br />
.-= Tracy´s last blog ..<a href="http://downturnliving.com/blog/2010/02/the-price-of-fame-a-story-about-about-pre-planning/" rel="nofollow">The Price Of Fame: A story about about pre-planning…</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: CJ Bowker</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-203</link>
		<dc:creator>CJ Bowker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 18:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David:
You are definitely right, so if you are ever in Westborough, MA stop by the Not Your Average Joe&#039;s on Rt 9 westbound and tell them I sent you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David:<br />
You are definitely right, so if you are ever in Westborough, MA stop by the Not Your Average Joe&#8217;s on Rt 9 westbound and tell them I sent you.</p>
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		<title>By: CJ Bowker</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-202</link>
		<dc:creator>CJ Bowker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 18:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ted:
You make a great point.  I&#039;ve actually gotten discounts and coupons at different places just for giving honest feedback.  I do think a lot of it is in the delivery.  Most people get emotional.  I try to take the approach of understanding what&#039;s going wrong and trying to figure out how it can be fixed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ted:<br />
You make a great point.  I&#8217;ve actually gotten discounts and coupons at different places just for giving honest feedback.  I do think a lot of it is in the delivery.  Most people get emotional.  I try to take the approach of understanding what&#8217;s going wrong and trying to figure out how it can be fixed.</p>
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		<title>By: CJ Bowker</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-201</link>
		<dc:creator>CJ Bowker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 18:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Financial Samurai:
That&#039;s a great idea I wish I did it sooner.  Why didn&#039;t I think of it?  It&#039;s definitely worth a try.  Great service needs to be pointed out to be appreciated.  The manager definitely deserves to be recognized for it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Financial Samurai:<br />
That&#8217;s a great idea I wish I did it sooner.  Why didn&#8217;t I think of it?  It&#8217;s definitely worth a try.  Great service needs to be pointed out to be appreciated.  The manager definitely deserves to be recognized for it.</p>
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		<title>By: CJ Bowker</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-200</link>
		<dc:creator>CJ Bowker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 18:45:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SAHMCFO:
I would have gone back either way because I like the restaurant and I&#039;ve been there a few times.  If this was my first time though, I probably wouldn&#039;t have been so forgiving without the great manager.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SAHMCFO:<br />
I would have gone back either way because I like the restaurant and I&#8217;ve been there a few times.  If this was my first time though, I probably wouldn&#8217;t have been so forgiving without the great manager.</p>
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		<title>By: David @ MBA briefs</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-199</link>
		<dc:creator>David @ MBA briefs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now that&#039;s excellent customer service.  What companies fail to realize most of the time is one excellent customer service story can bring in droves of new customers just as one bad story can drive just as many away.  Thanks for sharing!
.-= David @ MBA briefs´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/MBAbriefs/~3/S1eRh9bXAFo/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Do mass firings improve performance?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now that&#8217;s excellent customer service.  What companies fail to realize most of the time is one excellent customer service story can bring in droves of new customers just as one bad story can drive just as many away.  Thanks for sharing!<br />
.-= David @ MBA briefs´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/MBAbriefs/~3/S1eRh9bXAFo/" rel="nofollow">Do mass firings improve performance?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Ted</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-197</link>
		<dc:creator>Ted</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 16:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it also helps that you were polite and honest. I think we feel that if we get loud and angry enough people will notice. But a polite reminder, a simple request, can go a long ways. We have even gotten a free meal at Texas Roadhouse once just because we treated out server well! Folks in the service industry get treated like crap daily- so some kindness and honesty goes a looong way. Plus, you will keep coming back! Thanks for the story.
.-= Ted´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FatBrokeAndDepressed/~3/bFLCRKtveRk/shame-of-debt.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The shame of debt&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it also helps that you were polite and honest. I think we feel that if we get loud and angry enough people will notice. But a polite reminder, a simple request, can go a long ways. We have even gotten a free meal at Texas Roadhouse once just because we treated out server well! Folks in the service industry get treated like crap daily- so some kindness and honesty goes a looong way. Plus, you will keep coming back! Thanks for the story.<br />
.-= Ted´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FatBrokeAndDepressed/~3/bFLCRKtveRk/shame-of-debt.html" rel="nofollow">The shame of debt</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Financial Samurai</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-195</link>
		<dc:creator>Financial Samurai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 16:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the follow up afterwards!  I would call the restaurant and ask for who the manager was at that date and time.  Then mention to the restaurant owner, or whoever the proprietors are that &quot;X manager&quot; rocked.  That one mention will go A LONG way to cemented that person for a raise, promotion, or whatever.  It&#039;s worth it!
.-= Financial Samurai´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/02/26/the-curse-of-making-too-much-money-and-not-pursuing-your-dreams/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Curse Of Making Too Much Money And Not Pursuing Your Dreams&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the follow up afterwards!  I would call the restaurant and ask for who the manager was at that date and time.  Then mention to the restaurant owner, or whoever the proprietors are that &#8220;X manager&#8221; rocked.  That one mention will go A LONG way to cemented that person for a raise, promotion, or whatever.  It&#8217;s worth it!<br />
.-= Financial Samurai´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/02/26/the-curse-of-making-too-much-money-and-not-pursuing-your-dreams/" rel="nofollow">The Curse Of Making Too Much Money And Not Pursuing Your Dreams</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Yakezie Challenge Carnival - DeliverAwayDebt &#124; DeliverAwayDebt.com</title>
		<link>http://cjbowker.com/business/empathy-wanted/comment-page-1/#comment-192</link>
		<dc:creator>Yakezie Challenge Carnival - DeliverAwayDebt &#124; DeliverAwayDebt.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 11:12:19 +0000</pubDate>
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